Posts tagged ‘mothers’

February 22nd, 2012

Hypnobabies Class: New Series Staring Soon

Just finishing up the January series and ready to announce our next group Hypnobabies Class!

BlossomBelly Hypnobabies and Birth Doula Services will be teaching a group class in Santa Cruz, CA
starting March 18th, 1:30 – 4:30pm.

Please contact me to reserve your spot!

January 20th, 2012

Inspiration: Beautiful Hypnobabies Birth Story

Beautiful Hypnobabies Birth Story!   This mama went from “Why would anyone want natural childbirth?” …to…” I just had a natural pain free birth!”

Posted on a fellow Hypnobabies Instructor blog site, read the story here:  http://prenatalcoach.com/inspiration-beautiful-hypnobabies-birth-story/

December 7th, 2011

Hypnobabies: birth empowerment

Hypnobabies allows our moms to be self- empowered: Hypno-Moms find that preparing for childbirth using the power of their own minds, tuning in to their bodies and babies, and trusting the birth process, allows giving birth to be an empowering, life-affirming journey.

– Hypnobabies

August 30th, 2011

Hypnobabies Class: Santa Cruz, CA

Announcing our next group Hypnobabies Class!
BlossomBelly Hypnobabies and Birth Doula Services will be teaching a group class in Santa Cruz, CA
Starting October 30th 1:30 – 4:30pm.
Please contact me to reserve your spot!

August 13th, 2011

Benefits of Hypnobabies: 2

Benefits of using hypnosis for childbirth – part 2

Many Hypno-mothers have shorter labors since hypnosis training can minimize discomfort and fear, and create less resistance between the birthing muscles. Using deep hypnosis, muscles in the body remain very deeply relaxed, which allows the uterus to work more effectively.

- From Hypnobabies

June 26th, 2011

Benefits of Hypnobabies: 1

Benefits of using hypnosis for childbirth – part 1

Expectant moms are “deprogrammed” from the typically negative childbirth stories and scenarios they’ve heard by participating in Birth Hypnosis classes and listening to audio CDs that actually re-train the inner mind in a very positive way. This allows them to remain relaxed and confident during pregnancy and to enjoy preparing for childbirth.

- From Hypnobabies

April 21st, 2011

Tina Fey’s Prayer For Her Daughter

First, Lord: No tattoos. May neither Chinese symbol for truth nor Winnie-the-Pooh holding the FSU logo stain her tender haunches.

May she be Beautiful but not Damaged, for it’s the Damage that draws the creepy soccer coach’s eye, not the Beauty.

When the Crystal Meth is offered, May she remember the parents who cut her grapes in half And stick with Beer.

Guide her, protect her
When crossing the street, stepping onto boats, swimming in the ocean, swimming in pools, walking near pools, standing on the subway platform, crossing 86th Street, stepping off of boats, using mall restrooms, getting on and off escalators, driving on country roads while arguing, leaning on large windows, walking in parking lots, riding Ferris wheels, roller-coasters, log flumes, or anything called “Hell Drop,” “Tower of Torture,” or “The Death Spiral Rock ‘N Zero G Roll featuring Aerosmith,” and standing on any kind of balcony ever, anywhere, at any age.

Lead her away from Acting but not all the way to Finance. Something where she can make her own hours but still feel intellectually fulfilled and get outside sometimes And not have to wear high heels.

What would that be, Lord? Architecture? Midwifery? Golf course design? I’m asking You, because if I knew, I’d be doing it, Youdammit.

May she play the Drums to the fiery rhythm of her Own Heart with the sinewy strength of her Own Arms, so she need Not Lie With Drummers.

Grant her a Rough Patch from twelve to seventeen. Let her draw horses and be interested in Barbies for much too long, For childhood is short – a Tiger Flower blooming Magenta for one day – And adulthood is long and dry-humping in cars will wait.

O Lord, break the Internet forever, That she may be spared the misspelled invective of her peers And the online marketing campaign for Rape Hostel V: Girls Just Wanna Get Stabbed.

And when she one day turns on me and calls me a Bitch in front of Hollister, Give me the strength, Lord, to yank her directly into a cab in front of her friends, For I will not have that Shit. I will not have it.

And should she choose to be a Mother one day, be my eyes, Lord, that I may see her, lying on a blanket on the floor at 4:50 A.M., all-at-once exhausted, bored, and in love with the little creature whose poop is leaking up its back.

“My mother did this for me once,” she will realize as she cleans feces off her baby’s neck. “My mother did this for me.” And the delayed gratitude will wash over her as it does each generation and she will make a Mental Note to call me. And she will forget. But I’ll know, because I peeped it with Your God eyes.

Amen.

Source: Bossypants

March 1st, 2011

Hypnosis for Childbirth: my journey continues 4

I finished the Hypnosis class and am one step closer to completing my requirements and training!

At this point, truly, I almost feel like a fool for not practicing self-hypnosis to enhance my own life before now. I’ve meditated for years and have reaped many benefits from spending time in a hypnotic state. Yet I haven’t used specific suggestions to change my habits, or my behavioral and emotional patterns. Why wouldn’t I want to be more at peace with my decisions? Why wouldn’t I want to feel more confident in my corporate work and in my birth work? Why wouldn’t I want stronger healthier relationships? Why wouldn’t I want to be free of negative thinking and the pain that comes from it? One thing I learned from this course is that hypnosis does all this and more. It works, there are scientific reasons it works, and I really am a fool if I don’t taking advantage of the power of my own imagination right now to create an even more amazing life for myself.

February 15th, 2011

Healthy Birth Practice #1: Let Labor Begin on Its Own

excerpted from Lamaze Healthy Birth Practices, lamaze.org

Healthy Birth Practice #1: Let Labor Begin on Its Own

Induction of labor—starting labor artificially—is one of the most controversial issues in maternity care today. In many hospitals, labor is induced only for medical reasons, and care providers follow strict guidelines. Yet, in other hospitals, women have elective inductions—those done for convenience rather than for medical reasons. Many women are confused about when induction is truly necessary. Are there problems with induction? What are the benefits of letting labor begin on its own? When does it make sense to induce, and when is it better to wait? What is safest for you and your baby?

Your body is perfectly designed to birth your baby. During the last weeks of pregnancy, your body and your baby prepare for birth. For a first-time mother, the baby often “drops down” into the pelvis in the weeks before birth. The cervix tilts forward and gradually begins to soften. Over a period lasting from a few days to a few weeks, you may (or may not) feel irregular contractions that help your cervix gradually thin and, perhaps, even dilate a few centimeters.

During the last part of your pregnancy, your baby’s lungs mature, and he puts on a protective layer of fat, taking on the characteristic chubbiness of a newborn. Critical brain development continues through 41 weeks of gestation. Scientists estimate that there is a five-fold increase in the volume of white matter in the fetal brain from 35 to 41 weeks gestation. Researchers are still investigating how the brain continues to grow after the baby is born, compared to how the brain grows when the baby is still inside his mother (Kinney, 2006).

When the baby’s organs are fully mature and he is ready for life outside his mother’s uterus, scientists believe the baby’s body releases a tiny amount of a substance that signals the mother’s hormones to begin labor (Condon, Pancharatnam, Faust, & Mendelson, 2004). The surge of maternal hormones that accompanies full-term gestation and spontaneous vaginal birth appears to help the baby prepare for the transition from life inside the womb to outside and, especially, for breathing with his lungs for the first time (Jain & Eaton, 2006). Even if you know ahead of time that your baby needs to be delivered by cesarean surgery, the best way to tell that your baby is healthy enough to be born is to let labor begin on its own.

Interested in the whole article? Read on here

January 19th, 2011

Hypnosis for Childbirth: my journey continues 3

I am loving all this hypnosis! I can hardly wait for my next practice sessions, it’s so much fun. After years of meditation and putting myself into a relaxed trance state, I’m really enjoying leading my practice clients through the scripts and into hypnosis. Even my most stressed out family members tell me they feel good upon awakening. I’m realizing more and more just how much I am going to enjoy being a Hypnobabies childbirth instructor. I’m already a hypno-doula, qualified to support any mothers using hypnosis during childbirth. I can’t wait to add these childbirth classes to my list of services, and to help moms and families enjoy greater relaxation at their births using hypnosis.

December 22nd, 2010

Hypnosis for Childbirth: my journey continues 2

My next assignment for my hypnosis class involved trying out the suggestibility tests with willing “clients”.  That means my grown daughter and my husband for now.  Last time my daughter and I tried this out we ended up laughing too hard to continue.  But we did better this time!  I haven’t memorized the scripts yet, so I just read them right out of the book, and she listened and relaxed and responded really well.  As she imagined holding a bucket of heavy water in one hand and balloons in the other, her arms moved apart, one up and one down, until they were nearly vertical.  Hey, maybe I can do this!   We both thought it was fun!

And then I asked my husband.  I tried several suggestions on him and guess what.  NOTHING.  His fingers didn’t move like magnets, his arms didn’t move with the balloons tied to the wrist.  You are supposed to use your imagination honey!  Let goooooo!!  Nothing.

Obviously I still have a lot of practice to do.  I am definitely going to stick with my daughter as my practice client for awhile until I am better at this and ready to take on my husband.  On to the next chapter….

 

 

December 17th, 2010

Breastfeeding Tips: tip 10 for new mamas

Enjoy your baby!

 

Holding your baby close stimulates all of her senses. A baby who is smiled at, talked to and cuddled will develop a sense of security.  Breastfeeding is more than simply providing nutrients and calories for physical growth – it contributes to an intimate and special relationship.

You and your baby have the right to breastfeed anywhere, anytime and there are many techniques to help you achieve this comfortably.  Ask your friends, family, midwife, lactation consultant, doula, or attend a breastfeeding support group to see how it can be done.

 

– excerpted from Public Health Agency

 

 

December 14th, 2010

Hypnosis for Childbirth: my journey continues

I’m continuing to work on my hypnosis class on my way to becoming a Hypnobabies Childbirth Hypnosis Instructor.

My latest assignment was to try out some suggestibility tests – on myself first.   It was a simple assignment and I did it easily in just a few minutes.  But this simple task led to some complex thoughts. Taking the time to sit quietly, by myself, forgetting everything around me, reminded me of the years that I spent meditating.  Every morning I spent 45 minutes in what was basically a hypnotic state.  Because I did this faithfully every morning, it became second nature for me to enter that meditative state.  All I had to do was sit down and I’d be there, feeling the energy running up my spine and letting my stress and worries take a break of their own for awhile.  The most remarkable things happened in my life during those years that I was meditating, and I fully believe there is a connection.  How did I let myself move away from this practice?   It’s time to make time for this again.  I know I will better be able to help my future Hypnobabies clients when I’ve been faithfully practicing my own self – hypnosis.   Ooohhhhmmmmm!

 

 

 

December 8th, 2010

Does Everyone (really) Deserve a Doula?

What do you think?

It used to be that the word doula described primarily postpartum doula work.  Doulas who take care of babies and mamas after birth.  These days the definition has been expanded, and birth doulas help mamas (and their partners) during labor and childbirth.

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about women who go through pregnancy loss.  Miscarriage, abortion, stillborns.  Some of these women go through labor and birth, some have other procedures.  Many are alone and scared, most experience a variety of deep emotions and need a sympathetic ear.  Some doulas are expanding their scope of practice to include women in this category.   The support work that we do during labor and birth is very transferable to supporting a woman experiencing a pregnancy loss.

This is a controversial subject, especially in the case of abortion.  Some people think that regardless of the loss, we should reach out to assist women who need us.   Others feel it is completely out of the scope of what a doula is about – birth.  So what do you think?

I’ll tell you what I think.  I think EVERY woman deserves a doula.

 


 

December 4th, 2010

Breastfeeding Tips: tip 9 for new mamas

Motherhood and fatherhood are new roles that need to be learned together. Keep the lines of communication open!

Contact with other breastfeeding mothers is important for confident breastfeeding.

Don’t keep concerns to yourself. There are many groups and individuals available to help you, including: public health nurses, lactation consultants, the La Leche League, your doctor or midwife, family members, or friends who have breastfed. Do something fun every day; relax in the bathtub, take a walk with your baby, keep in touch with family and friends – don’t become isolated.

- excerpted from Public Health Agency